tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3349186241153321039.post2080687252433562294..comments2023-03-24T02:19:49.168-07:00Comments on Hikergirl: To have kids or not to have kids...that is the question.mooneyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17088821612750898831noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3349186241153321039.post-50347434054951473832008-02-21T23:30:00.000-08:002008-02-21T23:30:00.000-08:00Do what I did. I made a deal with one of the girl...Do what I did. I made a deal with one of the girls that works for me. She didn't want kids because she doesn't like the little ones. So the deal is that I would give birth and have them till they're about 12 and then they are all hers!!!<BR/><BR/>;-)Libby Luhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03425552118784500199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3349186241153321039.post-90037427515795403082008-02-20T11:05:00.000-08:002008-02-20T11:05:00.000-08:00When all is said and done, the good far outweighs ...When all is said and done, the good far outweighs the bad. Funny thing is, that while kids go through the rebellion of the teens/early 20's, they restore the bonds with their parents as they age and a wonderful relationship of mutual respect and trust develops. It's a normal process for kids to develop independence and learn to stand on their own. And that means pushing away from the parentals to gain that freedom.<BR/><BR/>The real issue is that the parents teach the children right from wrong and how to make good decisions in life, including how to gain independence and venture into the world as an adult.<BR/><BR/>As a wise man once said, there is opposition in all things. You can't understand the good if you don't experience a little bad once in awhile. Without it, there would be no joy or heartache, no exhiliration or despair, and no walking by faith and making a few mistakes along the way.<BR/><BR/>I apologize for the preachiness.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3349186241153321039.post-84695603339014670772008-02-19T23:02:00.000-08:002008-02-19T23:02:00.000-08:00They so aren't worth it.They so aren't worth it.Jeffhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10474136700158211518noreply@blogger.com